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Raising Children
As Good Hindus




Teach the four traditional goals of life.


The four traditional Hindu goals of life are duty (dharma), wealth
(artha), love (kama) and liberation (moksha). The Hindu has the
same ambitions as do others. He or she wants to experience love,
family and children, as well as a profession, wealth and respect.
Dharma enjoins the Hindu to fulfill these ambitions in an honest,
virtuous, dutiful way. Although dharma, artha and kama are often
seen as ends in themselves, their greatest value is in providing
the environment and experiences which help the embodied soul
mature over many lives into an ever deepening God consciousness–
culminating in moksha, the fourth and final goal: liberation
from the cycle of birth, death and rebirth.



Teach that, among humans, there are
young souls and old souls.


Each soul is emanated from God, as a spark from a fire, and thus
begins a spiritual journey which eventually leads it back to God.
All human beings are on this journey, whether they realize it or
not; and, of course, the journey spans many lives. One might ask,
if all are on the same journey, why then is there such a disparity
among men? Clearly some act like saints and others act like sinners.
Some take delight in helping their fellow man while others
delight in harming him. The Hindu explanation is that each of us
started the journey at a different time, and thus some are young
souls, at the beginning of the spiritual path, while others are old
souls, near the end. Our paramaguru, Jnanaguru Siva Yogaswami,
in speaking to his devotees, described life as a school, with some
in the M.A. class and others in kindergarten. Knowing the differences
in spiritual maturity, he gave to each accordingly. Hindus
do not condemn some men as evil and extol others as good but
rather see all as divine beings, some young, some old and some in
the intermediary stages. If children are taught this central Hindu
principle, they will be able to understand and accept the otherwise
confoundingly wide range of differences among people as
part of God’s cosmic plan of spiritual evolution.


Teach about man’s threefold nature.


Man’s nature can be described as three-fold: spiritual, intellectual
and instinctive. One or more of these aspects predominate uniquely
in each of us according to our maturity and evolution. The spiritual
nature is the pure, superconscious, intuitive mind of the soul.
The intellect is the thinking, reasoning nature. The instinctive
aspect of our being is the animal-like nature which governs the
physical body and brings forth strong desires and lower emotions
such as anger, jealousy and fear. The goal is to learn to control
these animal instincts as well as the ramifications of the intellect
and the pride of the ego and to manifest one’s spiritual nature.
It is the instinctive nature in man that contains the tendencies
to harm others, disregard the prudent laws of society and stir up
negativity within the home, the nation and beyond. Those who are
expressing such tendencies are young souls who have yet to learn
why and how to harness the instinctive forces. It may take such a
person many lives to rise to a higher consciousness and live in his
spiritual nature. Thus the Hindu approach to such a man, which
children can be taught from an early age, is not to label him as evil,
but rather to focus on restraining his hurtfulness and helping him
learn to control these instincts and improve his behavior.
Gurudeva describes this in an insightful way: “People act in evil
ways who are not yet in touch with their soul nature and live to
tally in the outer, instinctive mind. What the ignorant see as evil,
the enlightened see as the actions of low-minded and immature
individuals.”



teach of hinduism’s greatness



Instill in your children a pride in Hinduism
based upon its wise precepts for living.


Since the middle of the twentieth century, Hindu teachings have
become more widely understood throughout the world. As a result,
cardinal aspects of the Hindu approach to living have been
taken up by many thoughtful individuals of diverse religions and
ethnicities far beyond India. This is because they find them to be
wise and effective ways of living. Hindu precepts that are being
universally adopted in the 21st century include:


Following a vegetarian diet
 A reverence toward and desire to
protect the environment
 Solving conflicts through nonviolent means
 Tolerance towards others
 Teaching that the whole world is one family
 The belief in karma as a system of divine justice
 The belief in reincarnation
 The practice of yoga and meditation
 Seeking to personally experience Divinity



Teach your children how the unique wisdom of their born faith,
especially in the principles listed above, is being more appreciated
and adopted by spiritual seekers than ever before. Swami Chinmayananda,
in his first public talk in 1951, made a powerful statement
about the effectiveness of Hinduism: “The true Hinduism
is a science of perfection. There is, in this true Hinduism, a solution
to every individual, social, national and international problem.
True Hinduism is the Sanatana Dharma of the Upanishads.”
Children whose peers do not value Hinduism
will take heart in Swami’s pride-instilling words.


The traditional Hindu vegetarian
diet has many benefits, both
personal and planetary.




More and more individuals are switching from the
meat-eating diet of their parents to a vegetarian
diet as a matter of conscience based upon their
personal realization of the suffering that animals
undergo when they are fettered and slaughtered.
This is, of course, also the Hindu rationale for a
vegetarian diet. It is based on the virtue of ahimsa:
refraining from injuring, physically mentally or
emotionally, anyone or any living creature. The
Hindu who wishes to strictly follow the path of
noninjury naturally adopts a vegetarian diet. A
common saying that conveys this principle to even
the smallest child is, “I won’t eat anything that has
eyes, unless it’s a potato.”
A second rationale for vegetarianism has to do
with our state of consciousness. When we eat
meat, fish, fowl and eggs, we absorb the vibration
of these instinctive creatures into our nerve system.
This chemically alters our consciousness and
amplifies our own instinctive nature, which is the
part of us prone to fear, anger, jealousy, confusion,
resentment and the like. Therefore, being vegetarian
is a great help in attaining and maintaining a spiritual state of
consciousness, and some individuals take up vegetarianism for this
reason alone.
A third rationale for vegetarianism is that it uses the planet’s
natural resources in a much wiser way. In large measure, the escalating
loss of species, destruction of ancient rain forests to create
pasture lands for livestock, loss of topsoil and the consequent
increase of water impurities and air pollution have all been traced
to the single fact of meat in the human diet. No one decision that
we can make as individuals or as a race can have such a dramatic
effect on the improvement of our planetary ecology as the decision
to not eat meat. Many seeking to save the planet for future generations
have become vegetarians for this reason.
By teaching the value of a vegetarian diet to our youth, we protect
their health, lengthen their lives, elevate their consciousness
and preserve the Earth that is their home.


Hindus hold a deep reverence toward planet Earth
and toward all living beings that dwell on it.



Many thoughtful people share the Hindu view that it is not right
for man to kill or harm animals for food or sport. They
believe that animals have a right to enjoy living on this
planet as much as humans do. There is a Vedic verse
in this regard that says: “Ahimsa is not causing pain
to any living being at any time through the actions
of one’s mind, speech or body.” Another Vedic verse
states, “You must not use your God-given body for killing
God’s creatures, whether they are human, animal
or whatever.”
Hindus regard all living creatures as sacred—mammals,
fishes, birds and more. They are stewards of trees
and plants, fish and birds, bees and reptiles, animals
and creatures of every shape and kind. We acknowledge
this reverence for life in our special affection for
the cow. Mahatma Gandhi once said about the cow,
“One can measure the greatness of a nation and its moral
progress by the way it treats its animals. Cow protection
to me is not mere protection of the cow. It means
protection of all that lives and is helpless and weak in
the world. The cow means the entire subhuman world.”
Many individuals are concerned about our environment
and properly preserving it for future generations.
Hindus share this concern and honor and revere the
world around them as God’s creation. They work for
the protection of the Earth’s diversity and resources to
achieve the goal of a secure, sustainable and lasting environment.
Children today, as never before, have a native
understanding of the place of mankind as part of
the Earth, and it is our duty to reinforce this in their young minds.


Hinduism is respected for solving conflicts
through nonviolent means.


Mahatma Gandhi’s strong belief in the Hindu principle of ahimsa
and his nonviolent methods for opposing British rule are well
known throughout the world. The nonviolent approach has consciously
been used by others as well. Certainly one of the bestknown
exponents of nonviolence was Dr. Martin Luther King Jr..
Dr. King, after decades of careful thought on the problem of racial
discrimination in the United States, selected the Hindu principle of
ahimsa, as exemplified by Mahatma Gandhi’s tactic of nonviolent
resistance, as the most effective method for overcoming the unjust
laws that existed in America at the time. In 1959 Dr. King even
spent five weeks in India personally discussing with Gandhi’s followers
the philosophy and techniques of nonviolence to deepen his
understanding of them before putting them into actual use.
Children learn conflict resolution at an early age, establishing
patterns that will serve them throughout life. Some learn that fists,
force and angry words are the way to work things out. Others are
taught that diplomacy and kindly speech serve the same purpose
more effectively and yield longer-lasting results. Children pick up
these things largely through example in the home, by witnessing
how mom and dad work out their differences.


Hinduism has great tolerance and considers
the whole world to be a family.


In the world of the twenty-first century, a prime concern is the
many wars and clashes between peoples of different religions, nationalities
and ethnicities based on hatred on one or both sides. The
opposite of hatred is tolerance, and in that Hinduism excels. The
Hindu belief that gives rise to tolerance of differences in race and
nationality is that all of mankind is good, we are all divine beings,
souls created by God. Therefore, we respect and embrace the entire
human race. The Hindu practice of greeting one another with
“namaskara,” worshiping God within the other person, is a way this
philosophical truth is practiced on a daily basis.
Hindus do not believe that some individuals will be saved and
others damned, nor in a chosen people, nor in a starkly divided
world of good and evil filled only with the faithful and the infidels.
Hinduism respects and defends the rights of humans of every caste,
creed, color and sex, and it asks that those same rights be accorded
its billion followers. Hindus think globally and act locally as interracial,
international citizens of the Earth. They honor and value all
human cultures, faiths, languages and peoples, never offending one
to promote another.
This is taken one step further in the ancient verse “The whole
world is one family.” Everyone is family oriented. All our efforts are
focused on benefiting the members of our family. We want them
all to be happy, successful and religiously fulfilled. And when we
define family as the whole world, it is clear that we wish everyone
in the world happiness, success and religious fulfillment. The Vedic
verse that captures this sentiment is “May all people be happy.”
By teaching our children this broad acceptance of peoples, even
those who are very different from ourselves, we nurture in them
a love for all and a compassionate tolerance that will serve them
well throughout their lives.


Many people throughout the world firmly
believe in karma and reincarnation.



In the second half of the twentieth century Hindu concepts became
more and more popular and influential in the West. For
example, every year thousands of Westerners take up the belief
in karma and reincarnation as a logical explanation of what they
observe in life. A contemporary expression of the law of karma is
“What goes around comes around.” Karma is the universal principle
of cause and effect. Our actions, both good and bad, come
back to us in the future, helping us to learn from life’s lessons and
become better people. Reincarnation is the belief that the soul
is immortal and takes birth time and time again. Through this
process, we have experiences, learn lessons and evolve spiritually.
Finally, we graduate from physical birth and continue learning
and evolving on inner planes of consciousness without the need
for a physical body until, ultimately, we merge in God. The belief
in karma and reincarnation gives children a logical explanation to
what otherwise may seem an unjust, indifferent or Godless world.
They can be taught that challenging questions such as the following
all have logical explanations when viewed through the beliefs
of karma and reincarnation.

 Why do some innocent children die so young?
 Why are some people so much more talented than others?
 Why do some people act in evil ways?
 Why is it that a mean-spirited person may succeed
and a good-hearted person fail?


Belief in a single life makes it hard to reconcile such things, causing
one to question how a just, benevolent God could allow them to
happen. But an understanding of karma as God’s divine law which
transcends this one incarnation and brings to bear our actions
from many past lives on Earth offers profound insight. That innocent
child may have been a child murderer. That musical genius
may have so perfected his art in a past life that he inherits a rare
talent at birth and becomes a child prodigy.
The beliefs of karma and reincarnation give a spiritual purpose
to our life. We know that the reason we are here on Earth is to mature
spiritually and that this process extends over many lives. We
know that karma is our teacher in this process, teaching us both
what to do and what not to do through the reactions it brings back
to us in the future. So, our current incarnation—the nature of our
body, family, inclinations, talents, strengths and weaknesses—is specifically
designed by us to help us face the fruits of our past actions,
both positive and negative, and thus learn and evolve spiritually.


Hinduism boldly proclaims that man can experience God.


Throughout the world today, many who are on the mystical path
want to have a personal spiritual experience. They want to see God.
Hinduism not only gives them the hope that they can achieve their
goal in this lifetime, but it gives them the practical tools, such as
the disciplines of yoga and meditation, through which this goal
eventually becomes a reality.
The focus of many religions is on helping those who do not believe
in God to believe in God. Belief in God, in such faiths, is the
beginning and the end of the process. Once you believe in God
there is nothing more to do. However, in Hinduism belief is only
the first step. Hindus want to move beyond believing in God to
experiencing God. To the Hindu, belief is but a preparatory step to
divine, daily communion and life-transforming personal realization.
There is a classic story from the life of Swami Vivekananda, one
of Hinduism’s best-known modern teachers, that illustrates the
Hindu perspective of experiencing God. When Vivekananda was
still a university student, he asked many of the foremost religious
leaders in the Calcutta area where he lived if they had seen God.
However, he never got a clear and authoritative answer from any
 one of them until he met Sri Ramakrishna. During his second
meeting with Sri Ramakrishna he asked the great sage, “Sir, have
you seen God?” Calmly Sri Ramakrishna replied, “Yes, I see Him
as clearly as one sees an apple in the palm of the hand; nay, even
more intently. And not only this, you can also see Him.” This deeply
impressed the young Vivekananda, who soon after accepted Sri
Ramakrishna as his guru.
By teaching children about Hinduism’s stress on personal Godly
experience, we set them on a path of self-understanding, self-perfection
and discovery of the Divine that does not rely on the beliefs
or reports of others. This gives them an appreciation of each
step in life—be it pleasant or unpleasant—as an integral part of a
joyous spiritual journey
 




Om Tat Sat
                                                        
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