Hindu Samskriti – Raising Children As Good Hindus -2
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Raising Children
As
Good Hindus
Teach the four traditional goals of life.
The four traditional Hindu goals of life are
duty (dharma), wealth
(artha), love
(kama) and liberation (moksha). The Hindu has
the
same ambitions as do others. He or she wants
to experience love,
family and children, as well as a profession,
wealth and respect.
Dharma enjoins the Hindu to fulfill these
ambitions in an honest,
virtuous, dutiful way. Although dharma, artha
and kama are often
seen as ends in themselves, their greatest
value is in providing
the environment and experiences which help
the embodied soul
mature over many lives into an ever deepening
God consciousness–
culminating in moksha, the fourth and final
goal: liberation
from the cycle of birth, death and rebirth.
Teach that, among humans, there are
young souls and old souls.
Each soul is emanated from God, as a spark
from a fire, and thus
begins a spiritual journey which eventually
leads it back to God.
All human beings are on this journey, whether
they realize it or
not; and, of course, the journey spans many
lives. One might ask,
if all are on the same journey, why then is
there such a disparity
among men? Clearly some act like saints and
others act like sinners.
Some take delight in helping their fellow man
while others
delight in harming him. The Hindu explanation
is that each of us
started the journey at a different time, and
thus some are young
souls, at the beginning of the spiritual
path, while others are old
souls, near the end. Our paramaguru, Jnanaguru Siva Yogaswami,
in speaking to his devotees, described life
as a school, with some
in the M.A. class and others in kindergarten.
Knowing the differences
in spiritual maturity, he gave to each
accordingly. Hindus
do not condemn some men as evil and extol
others as good but
rather see all as divine beings, some young,
some old and some in
the intermediary stages. If children are
taught this central Hindu
principle, they will be able to understand
and accept the otherwise
confoundingly wide range of differences among
people as
part of God’s cosmic plan of spiritual
evolution.
Teach about man’s threefold nature.
Man’s nature can be described as three-fold:
spiritual, intellectual
and instinctive. One or more of these aspects
predominate uniquely
in each of us according to our maturity and
evolution. The spiritual
nature is the pure, superconscious, intuitive
mind of the soul.
The intellect is the thinking, reasoning
nature. The instinctive
aspect of our being is the animal-like nature
which governs the
physical body and brings forth strong desires
and lower emotions
such as anger, jealousy and fear. The goal is
to learn to control
these animal instincts as well as the
ramifications of the intellect
and the pride of the ego and to manifest
one’s spiritual nature.
It is the instinctive nature in man that
contains the tendencies
to harm others, disregard the prudent laws of
society and stir up
negativity within the home, the nation and
beyond. Those who are
expressing such tendencies are young souls
who have yet to learn
why and how to harness the instinctive
forces. It may take such a
person many lives to rise to a higher
consciousness and live in his
spiritual nature. Thus the Hindu approach to
such a man, which
children can be taught from an early age, is
not to label him as evil,
but rather to focus on restraining his
hurtfulness and helping him
learn to control these instincts and improve
his behavior.
Gurudeva describes this in an insightful way:
“People act in evil
ways who are not yet in touch with their soul
nature and live to
tally in the outer, instinctive mind. What
the ignorant see as evil,
the enlightened see as the actions of
low-minded and immature
individuals.”
teach of hinduism’s greatness
Instill in your children a pride in Hinduism
based upon its wise precepts for living.
Since the middle of the twentieth century,
Hindu teachings have
become more widely understood throughout the
world. As a result,
cardinal aspects of the Hindu approach to
living have been
taken up by many thoughtful individuals of
diverse religions and
ethnicities far beyond India. This is
because they find them to be
wise and effective ways of living. Hindu
precepts that are being
universally adopted in the 21st century include:
Following a vegetarian diet
A
reverence toward and desire to
protect the environment
Solving
conflicts through nonviolent means
Tolerance
towards others
Teaching
that the whole world is one family
The
belief in karma as a system of divine justice
The
belief in reincarnation
The
practice of yoga and meditation
Seeking
to personally experience Divinity
Teach your children how the unique wisdom of
their born faith,
especially in the principles listed above, is
being more appreciated
and adopted by spiritual seekers than ever
before. Swami Chinmayananda,
in his first public talk in 1951, made a powerful statement
about the effectiveness of Hinduism: “The
true Hinduism
is a science of perfection. There is, in this
true Hinduism, a solution
to every individual, social, national and
international problem.
True Hinduism is the Sanatana Dharma of the Upanishads.”
Children whose peers do not value Hinduism
will take heart in Swami’s pride-instilling
words.
The traditional Hindu vegetarian
diet has many benefits, both
personal and planetary.
More and more individuals are switching from
the
meat-eating diet of their parents to a
vegetarian
diet as a matter of conscience based upon
their
personal realization of the suffering that
animals
undergo when they are fettered and
slaughtered.
This is, of course, also the Hindu rationale
for a
vegetarian diet. It is based on the virtue of
ahimsa:
refraining from injuring, physically mentally
or
emotionally, anyone or any living creature.
The
Hindu who wishes to strictly follow the path
of
noninjury naturally adopts a vegetarian diet.
A
common saying that conveys this principle to
even
the smallest child is, “I won’t eat anything
that has
eyes, unless it’s a potato.”
A second rationale for vegetarianism has to
do
with our state of consciousness. When we eat
meat, fish, fowl and eggs, we absorb the
vibration
of these instinctive creatures into our nerve
system.
This chemically alters our consciousness and
amplifies our own instinctive nature, which
is the
part of us prone to fear, anger, jealousy,
confusion,
resentment and the like. Therefore, being
vegetarian
is a great help in attaining and maintaining
a spiritual state of
consciousness, and some individuals take up
vegetarianism for this
reason alone.
A third rationale for vegetarianism is that
it uses the planet’s
natural resources in a much wiser way. In
large measure, the escalating
loss of species, destruction of ancient rain
forests to create
pasture lands for livestock, loss of topsoil
and the consequent
increase of water impurities and air
pollution have all been traced
to the single fact of meat in the human diet.
No one decision that
we can make as individuals or as a race can
have such a dramatic
effect on the improvement of our planetary
ecology as the decision
to not eat meat. Many seeking to save the
planet for future generations
have become vegetarians for this reason.
By teaching the value of a vegetarian diet to
our youth, we protect
their health, lengthen their lives, elevate
their consciousness
and preserve the Earth that is their home.
Hindus hold a deep reverence toward planet Earth
and toward all living beings that dwell on it.
Many thoughtful people share the Hindu view
that it is not right
for man to kill or harm animals for food or
sport. They
believe that animals have a right to enjoy
living on this
planet as much as humans do. There is a Vedic
verse
in this regard that says: “Ahimsa is not
causing pain
to any living being at any time through the
actions
of one’s mind, speech or body.” Another Vedic
verse
states, “You must not use your God-given body
for killing
God’s creatures, whether they are human,
animal
or whatever.”
Hindus regard all living creatures as
sacred—mammals,
fishes, birds and more. They are stewards of
trees
and plants, fish and birds, bees and
reptiles, animals
and creatures of every shape and kind. We
acknowledge
this reverence for life in our special
affection for
the cow. Mahatma Gandhi once said about the
cow,
“One can measure the greatness of a nation
and its moral
progress by the way it treats its animals.
Cow protection
to me is not mere protection of the cow. It
means
protection of all that lives and is helpless
and weak in
the world. The cow means the entire subhuman
world.”
Many individuals are concerned about our
environment
and properly preserving it for future
generations.
Hindus share this concern and honor and
revere the
world around them as God’s creation. They
work for
the protection of the Earth’s diversity and
resources to
achieve the goal of a secure, sustainable and
lasting environment.
Children today, as never before, have a
native
understanding of the place of mankind as part
of
the Earth, and it is our duty to reinforce
this in their young minds.
Hinduism is respected for solving conflicts
through nonviolent means.
Mahatma Gandhi’s strong belief in the Hindu
principle of ahimsa
and his nonviolent methods for opposing
British rule are well
known throughout the world. The nonviolent
approach has consciously
been used by others as well. Certainly one of
the bestknown
exponents of nonviolence was Dr. Martin
Luther King Jr..
Dr. King, after decades of careful thought on
the problem of racial
discrimination in the United States,
selected the Hindu principle of
ahimsa, as exemplified by Mahatma Gandhi’s
tactic of nonviolent
resistance, as the most effective method for
overcoming the unjust
laws that existed in America at the
time. In 1959 Dr. King even
spent five weeks in India
personally discussing with Gandhi’s followers
the philosophy and techniques of nonviolence
to deepen his
understanding of them before putting them
into actual use.
Children learn conflict resolution at an
early age, establishing
patterns that will serve them throughout
life. Some learn that fists,
force and angry words are the way to work
things out. Others are
taught that diplomacy and kindly speech serve
the same purpose
more effectively and yield longer-lasting
results. Children pick up
these things largely through example in the
home, by witnessing
how mom and dad work out their differences.
Hinduism has great tolerance and considers
the whole world to be a family.
In the world of the twenty-first century, a
prime concern is the
many wars and clashes between peoples of
different religions, nationalities
and ethnicities based on hatred on one or
both sides. The
opposite of hatred is tolerance, and in that
Hinduism excels. The
Hindu belief that gives rise to tolerance of
differences in race and
nationality is that all of mankind is good,
we are all divine beings,
souls created by God. Therefore, we respect
and embrace the entire
human race. The Hindu practice of greeting
one another with
“namaskara,” worshiping God within the other
person, is a way this
philosophical truth is practiced on a daily
basis.
Hindus do not believe that some individuals
will be saved and
others damned, nor in a chosen people, nor in
a starkly divided
world of good and evil filled only with the
faithful and the infidels.
Hinduism respects and defends the rights of
humans of every caste,
creed, color and sex, and it asks that those
same rights be accorded
its billion followers. Hindus think globally
and act locally as interracial,
international citizens of the Earth. They
honor and value all
human cultures, faiths, languages and
peoples, never offending one
to promote another.
This is taken one step further in the ancient
verse “The whole
world is one family.” Everyone is family
oriented. All our efforts are
focused on benefiting the members of our
family. We want them
all to be happy, successful and religiously
fulfilled. And when we
define family as the whole world, it is clear
that we wish everyone
in the world happiness, success and religious
fulfillment. The Vedic
verse that captures this sentiment is “May
all people be happy.”
By teaching our children this broad
acceptance of peoples, even
those who are very different from ourselves,
we nurture in them
a love for all and a compassionate tolerance
that will serve them
well throughout their lives.
Many people throughout the world firmly
believe in karma and reincarnation.
In the second half of the twentieth century
Hindu concepts became
more and more popular and influential in the
West. For
example, every year thousands of Westerners
take up the belief
in karma and reincarnation as a logical
explanation of what they
observe in life. A contemporary expression of
the law of karma is
“What goes around comes around.” Karma is the
universal principle
of cause and effect. Our actions, both good
and bad, come
back to us in the future, helping us to learn
from life’s lessons and
become better people. Reincarnation is the
belief that the soul
is immortal and takes birth time and time
again. Through this
process, we have experiences, learn lessons
and evolve spiritually.
Finally, we graduate from physical birth and
continue learning
and evolving on inner planes of consciousness
without the need
for a physical body until, ultimately, we
merge in God. The belief
in karma and reincarnation gives children a
logical explanation to
what otherwise may seem an unjust,
indifferent or Godless world.
They can be taught that challenging questions
such as the following
all have logical explanations when viewed
through the beliefs
of karma and reincarnation.
Why do
some innocent children die so young?
Why are
some people so much more talented than others?
Why do
some people act in evil ways?
Why is it
that a mean-spirited person may succeed
and a good-hearted person fail?
Belief in a single life makes it hard to
reconcile such things, causing
one to question how a just, benevolent God
could allow them to
happen. But an understanding of karma as
God’s divine law which
transcends this one incarnation and brings to
bear our actions
from many past lives on Earth offers profound
insight. That innocent
child may have been a child murderer. That
musical genius
may have so perfected his art in a past life
that he inherits a rare
talent at birth and becomes a child prodigy.
The beliefs of karma and reincarnation give a
spiritual purpose
to our life. We know that the reason we are
here on Earth is to mature
spiritually and that this process extends
over many lives. We
know that karma is our teacher in this
process, teaching us both
what to do and what not to do through the
reactions it brings back
to us in the future. So, our current
incarnation—the nature of our
body, family, inclinations, talents,
strengths and weaknesses—is specifically
designed by us to help us face the fruits of
our past actions,
both positive and negative, and thus learn
and evolve spiritually.
Hinduism boldly proclaims that man can experience God.
Throughout the world today, many who are on
the mystical path
want to have a personal spiritual experience.
They want to see God.
Hinduism not only gives them the hope that
they can achieve their
goal in this lifetime, but it gives them the
practical tools, such as
the disciplines of yoga and meditation,
through which this goal
eventually becomes a reality.
The focus of many religions is on helping
those who do not believe
in God to believe in God. Belief in God, in
such faiths, is the
beginning and the end of the process. Once
you believe in God
there is nothing more to do. However, in
Hinduism belief is only
the first step. Hindus want to move beyond
believing in God to
experiencing God. To the Hindu, belief is but
a preparatory step to
divine, daily communion and life-transforming
personal realization.
There is a classic story from the life of
Swami Vivekananda, one
of Hinduism’s best-known modern teachers,
that illustrates the
Hindu perspective of experiencing God. When
Vivekananda was
still a university student, he asked many of
the foremost religious
leaders in the Calcutta area where he lived if they had seen
God.
However, he never got a clear and
authoritative answer from any
one of them until he met Sri Ramakrishna.
During his second
meeting with Sri Ramakrishna he asked the
great sage, “Sir, have
you seen God?” Calmly Sri Ramakrishna
replied, “Yes, I see Him
as clearly as one sees an apple in the palm
of the hand; nay, even
more intently. And not only this, you can
also see Him.” This deeply
impressed the young Vivekananda, who soon
after accepted Sri
Ramakrishna as his guru.
By teaching children about Hinduism’s stress
on personal Godly
experience, we set them on a path of
self-understanding, self-perfection
and discovery of the Divine that does not
rely on the beliefs
or reports of others. This gives them an
appreciation of each
step in life—be it pleasant or unpleasant—as
an integral part of a
joyous spiritual journey
Om Tat Sat
(Continued...)
(My
humble salutations to Sadguru Sri Sivaya Subramuniyaswami ji, Hinduism Today dot com for the collection)
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