Bhakti-Rasayana -7

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Chapter Thirteen
Mother Yaçodå Binds K®ß√a
sa måtu˙ svinna-gåtråya
visrasta-kavara-sraja˙
d®ß†vå pariçramaμ k®ß√a˙
k®payåsît sva-bandhane
Çrîmad-Bhågavatam (10.9.18); B®had-bhågavatåm®ta (2.7.129)
When K®ß√a saw Yaçodå labouring so desperately that her whole
body was dripping with perspiration and the flower garland that
was entwined in her hair braid was falling down, He mercifully
allowed Himself to be bound by her.
Sanåtana Gosvåmî says that in describing the life of Yaçodå,
Çukadeva Gosvåmî became joyful and astonished. The våtsalya of
Yaçodå is more special than anyone else’s, and even more special
than Nanda’s because K®ß√a is not completely overpowered by
anyone else’s parental affection the way He is by hers. K®ß√a is
the one who unties the bindings of this material universe, even
for those who approach Him in the mood of an enemy. He is the
giver of the five types of mukti, liberation: sålokya (residing on
the same planet as the Lord), såmîpya (becoming His personal
associate), sårüpya (obtaining a spiritual form similar to His),
sår߆i (obtaining opulence similar to His) and såyujya (merging
into His effulgence). Over and above these He gives the special
type of liberation known as prema. That prema He gave even to
Pütanå, who approached Him in the guise of a mother to kill
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Him. She was given a motherly position in Goloka even though
she was an enemy, and her relatives Aghåsura and Bakåsura, even
though they were also enemies, were given sålokya. Yet here we
find that very giver of liberation Himself being bound by Yaçodå;
just see what a pastime this is!
Outside her house beneath a large pot filled with milk, Yaçodå
lit a fire fuelled by cow-dung, and the smoke was rising in all
directions. Then she returned to churning butter. It was early
morning, the day after Dîpåvalî, and while going about their
morning duties, all of the household servants were remembering
and singing about K®ß√a’s pastimes. At that time K®ß√a woke up,
and not seeing His mother, He got up from His bed and began
crying loudly. When Yaçodå looked over and saw the small,
naked boy, she took Him in her lap and began to feed Him milk.
At that time, she felt such strong waves of spiritual ecstasy that
tears fell from her eyes and milk came to her breasts. There was
not even any need for K®ß√a to suck the milk out; automatically
it flowed and K®ß√a drank without effort.
Meanwhile Yaçodå saw that the milk she had placed on the fire
was boiling over, so she immediately got up and ran there. Before
she wanted only to take K®ß√a in her lap and feed Him, yet now
her immediate concern was the milk – it was boiling over and
would not wait. At that moment she was not thinking about
whether K®ß√a was satisfied or not, and even though K®ß√a was
grasping her with both His hands and His mouth, leaving Him
behind she got up to see to the milk. The powerful råkßasî Pütanå
tried desperately to escape the grasp of that same K®ß√a, but
could not. She even flew into the sky and tried to fly back to
Mathurå, but K®ß√a clutched her breast with such ferocity that
she fell to the ground. Effortlessly K®ß√a was able to hold onto
Pütanå, yet when K®ß√a desired that “Mother will not leave Me!”
and He even applied all of His çakti, still she went to look after
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the milk and left Him sitting there. Becoming very angry, K®ß√a
began crying and His eyes became red. Biting His lip as children
do, He thought, “Mother left Me and didn’t feed Me milk?” and
He picked up a stone and broke the butter pot.
Yaçodå was saying to the milk, “Don’t boil over! I need you to
prepare sweets for K®ß√a!” But the milk may have been feeling,
“What do you need me for? What is the nature of K®ß√a’s stomach?
It can never really be filled. But neither can your milk supply
ever be exhausted; K®ß√a could keep drinking it forever and
it would never run out. Therefore my own life is worthless. If
I will never be able to satisfy K®ß√a, then I will give up my life by
boiling over into the fire.”
Seeing that the milk had risen and was boiling over, Yaçodå
said to it, “Don’t give up your life! I need you to prepare sweets
for K®ß√a!” After sprinkling some water on the milk to prevent it
from boiling over, Yaçodå returned and found the broken butter
pot. Not seeing K®ß√a, she searched and searched until she
noticed His footprints leading in the direction of the house, and
she laughed to herself as she saw Him feeding some yoghurt to
the monkeys and taking some Himself. She thought, “K®ß√a is a
real friend of these monkeys! I should discipline Him for this, but
it would spoil the fun. And besides, until now I have not done such
a thing.” So laughing a little, she picked up a stick to frighten
Him and quietly hid so He wouldn’t know she was watching. She
thought, “If He looks this way and comes to know that I am
watching, then I will have to at once run to catch Him.” And
K®ß√a was also alert, thinking, “If Mother or anyone comes, I must
run away at once.”
Yaçodå saw that there was a group of crows there along with
the monkeys. All of them were previously in råma-lîlå – the crows
were from the dynasty of Kåkabhuça√∂i, and the monkeys were
from the dynasty of Hanumån and Sugrîva. K®ß√a was indebted
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to all of them, so He was feeding them. The crows were below
catching the drops of yoghurt that fell to the ground, and the
monkeys were beside K®ß√a taking the yoghurt directly with their
hands. At first she laughed, but then, very slowly, like a cat, she
approached Him, and He – whose very name pushes away the
influence of måyå for the people of this world and saves them
from seeing the Yamadütas – looked at her with fearful eyes.
Who could He be afraid of? Was He afraid of Kaμsa? Some say
that He went to Gokula out of fear of Kaμsa, but really He went
there to taste prema. He is never afraid of anyone, yet upon seeing
Yaçodå, He jumped down and ran off.
Yaçodå ran after Him, and we also desire to catch Bhagavån by
our bhakti, yet unlike her, we cannot catch Him. “So many days
have passed, and every day I have engaged in chanting harinåma.
Yet as of today I still have no direct experience of Bhagavån. My
heart has not melted and I have never shed tears for Him, and
I have never felt ecstasy while chanting the holy name. How will
my heart become changed? I can see no light at the end of the
tunnel or anything. How will I ever attain bhakti?” We should
consider these things. As long as even a little mundane vision
remains within us, we won’t be able to catch Him. By realisation
of the subtle plane we won’t catch Him, and by realisation of the
nirgu√a plane we won’t catch Him. Our mentality must be like
that of the Vrajavåsîs such as Yaçodå and the other gopîs, and then
we will be able to catch Him; otherwise not. But we are also running
after Him; we also possess some eagerness. Perhaps we have
performed some sacrifice in the service of our spiritual master
and when we hear hari-kathå we get some devotional feelings, but
do we possess that prema which overpowers Bhagavån? Even the
pure-hearted yogîs in their samådhi cannot catch a glimpse of the
Lord’s shadow!
Yaçodå is really giving chase to K®ß√a – on foot, not by the
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speed of mind. That is another thing. She is not pursuing Him
by the speed of mind but on foot, and trying to catch K®ß√a in
His manifest form. Sometimes she would come near Him, and
again He would give her the slip, and like this He was playing
with His mother. If we possessed such bhakti by which we could
come near K®ß√a, then would it be easy to catch Him? It would
still be very difficult. Even in “coming near Him”, how far away
would we still be? Even though He is always near, present inside
our hearts, we are not seeing Him there. Yaçodå sees Him, chases
after Him, and catches Him, but what about us? We don’t perform
the required sådhana or bhajana to catch Him. We will only
catch Him when we have sufficient eagerness within us, but first
the urges for mundane pleasure must be completely forgotten.
K®ß√a is running and Yaçodå is also running, but she will have to
run twice as fast as K®ß√a to catch Him.
Sugrîva’s brother Våli worshipped the sun-god Sürya by performing
austerities, and then Sürya appeared before him and
asked, “What boon do you desire?” Våli said, “I desire the boon
that whenever anyone comes before me to fight, I will keep all of
my own strength and also take half of my opponent’s strength.”
One day after having received this boon, Våli was at a river offering
püjå to Süryadeva when the demon Råva√a approached him.
Råva√a thought that he was the strongest person in the entire
universe, and with his twenty hands began disturbing Våli by
splashing water on him. But Våli simply continued offering his
püjå with only one hand and with the other he grabbed hold of
Råva√a and held him underneath his armpit. Våli didn’t even
look at Råva√a, like one who has killed a mosquito on his back.
Besides Bhagavån no one could kill Våli, and even then,
Bhagavån had to use some trickery to kill him. Råma killed him
from a hidden position. Otherwise, if He had gone before Våli,
Våli would have taken half of His strength and Råma would have
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also been defeated! In a similar way, we can see that for catching
K®ß√a, double speed is necessary; then He can be caught. “Double
speed” means that our own sincere efforts must be there, and
K®ß√a’s mercy must also be upon us. He loves all jîvas, but we
must love Him twice as much, and then we can catch Him.
Sometimes K®ß√a remembers His own bhagavattå (nature as
the Supreme), but all the time Yaçodå loves Him with the idea
that He is merely an ordinary child, and she gives her everything
to Him. In this stage of prema there may appear to be even more
affection for the beloved’s possessions than for the beloved himself.
We may have great devotion to our father, but then if we put
on our father’s sandals and wear them ourselves, is that real devotion,
or not? We should respect the sandals of our father as much
as we respect him, just as Bharata served the wooden sandals of
Råmacandra. That is the correct outlook, that is really prema. But
if we are indifferent to the possessions of our beloved that is not
prema, and if we use them for our own enjoyment that is not
prema. K®ß√a’s cloth, His flute, His toys, milk and butter that are
meant for Him – a real devotee will sometimes appear to have
more love for these things because they are dear to K®ß√a.
With great love Yaçodå feeds K®ß√a milk, so does she have
more affection for K®ß√a Himself, or for the milk? Of course for
K®ß√a, but if the milk becomes spoiled in some way, she will
be very upset. She thinks, “If K®ß√a takes this milk, He will live
a long, healthy life. From this milk I will make sandeça, rabarî,
khîra, malpura and so many delectable preparations to feed
K®ß√a.” At other times, when Mother Yaçodå makes K®ß√a some
beautiful new silken clothes and after dressing Him in them He
goes outside and plays in some nearby mud, then, seeing Him,
Yaçodå says, “Hey! Look what you’ve done to Your new clothes!”
Then K®ß√a thinks, “Does Mother have more love for Me, or for
My clothes?” Therefore devotees may sometimes show even more
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regard for K®ß√a’s paraphernalia than for K®ß√a Himself; that is
one symptom of prema. And what are K®ß√a’s dearest possessions
but His devotees? This is why even after performing bhajana for
thousands of lifetimes those who don’t respect His devotees will
attain absolutely nothing.
Therefore Yaçodå went to protect the milk so that it would not
be wasted, and when K®ß√a broke the butter pot, she ran after
Him to correct Him. Lifting her stick, she said, “All right – now
I will hit You!”
Frightened, K®ß√a replied, “Mother, don’t hit Me!”
“Tell me then – why did You break the pot?”
“I didn’t break it!”
“Then who did?”
“You must have accidentally broken it as you ran by! You were
not completely to your senses!”
Then Yaçodå became more angry and said, “And why are You
stealing? There are no thieves on my side of the family! You are
the only thief in our family!” Again K®ß√a ran off, and again she
lifted up her stick and chased Him. As she was running, her hair
loosened and she was becoming fatigued, but she was determined
to catch Him. Finally with the help of some of the household
servants He was caught, and she brought Him inside the house.
“Now shall I hit You, restless friend of the monkeys? You steal
from the homes of others as well as Your own house! Do You
think that’s good?”
K®ß√a replied, “Mother, don’t hit Me! There is no purpose in
hitting Me!”
So she put down the stick and said, “All right, I will bind You
instead.” So she took the rope from her loosened hair and tried
to bind Him. His thin waist was so nicely decorated with golden
ornaments, and applying the rope to it, she found that the rope
was short. She said to the gopîs, “Bring more rope!” But even
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upon more rope being added, K®ß√a still could not be bound.
Yogamåyå saw that, “My master does not desire to be bound
now.” Therefore K®ß√a’s waist remained the same size, but by the
influence of Yogamåyå the rope was always two finger lengths
short. Because she still did not have sufficient determination,
Yaçodå couldn’t wrap it all the way around even once, and everyone
was astonished.
What difficulty should there be in binding such a thin waist?
It is like those of us who are presently practising sådhana-bhajana.
In general we believe that Bhagavån is very merciful, but sometimes
our faith becomes weak. “Is there really so much çakti in
the name of Bhagavån, or not? Can it really bestow bhakti, or
not? Will I ever meet Bhagavån?” If in the midst of the process of
chanting harinåma all of one’s difficulties are not eradicated, he
may begin to think, “Is Bhagavån there, or not?” He may feel that
he has attained nothing, that his unhappiness has not been
mitigated, his poverty has not been eradicated, and after doing
bhajana his whole life, he may merely die crying in disappointment.
Rather we should continue chanting with such good
quality faith that we will always be thinking, “My endeavour will
certainly be successful.”
But sometimes our determination is not firm, and many
sådhakas fall into the trap of again becoming involved in enjoying
måyå, thinking, “I will work hard, make lots of money, build
a house and live comfortably,” but they forget that one day they
will have to die and leave it all behind. At first Yaçodå thought
that she would easily wrap the rope around K®ß√a’s waist, but did
it happen? Similarly, when we first take up devotional life we
think that attaining Bhagavån will not be difficult; but recognising
the reality of it, we should never become despondent. Many
devotees become despondent, but we should always remain eager
and determined.
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After some time, the gopîs were wonderstruck, and especially
Yaçodå’s astonishment knew no limit as they saw that thousands
of ropes had been joined together but still this small child could
not be bound. Yaçodå thought, “From early morning until now
I have been trying to bind Him! The rope has become so long,
and still it won’t wrap around Him even once. Every time it is two
finger lengths short. Not one, three, four or five finger lengths
short, but every time it is precisely two finger lengths short! Why
is this?”
There were two reasons for the rope being short. First,
Yogamåyå saw that K®ß√a did not desire to be bound, so K®ß√a’s
sanction was not present, and second, there was not sufficient
eagerness in Yaçodå. There is the mercy of K®ß√a and a devotee’s
eagerness for bhajana. When they both come together, one will
meet Bhagavån and overpower Him with prema. As long as
Yaçodå was not sufficiently eager, she could not bind Him. But
then she became more determined, thinking, “This is my own
small child, and standing before all of my friends I am unable to
bind Him? Now I will certainly bind Him, or else I might as well
give up my life!” She began perspiring and her face became red,
and k®payåsît sva-bandhane – seeing her endeavour to bind Him,
K®ß√a’s heart melted. The influence of Yogamåyå withdrew, and
at last He allowed her to bind Him.
Sanåtana Gosvåmî says here that there are two types of
devotees: those who desire to attain Bhagavån by the practice of
sådhana-bhajana, and those who rely solely on K®ß√a’s mercy.
Mahåprabhu said that both are necessary. Kittens don’t need to
make any effort; the cat feeds them and nurtures them and carries
them everywhere in her mouth, and all the kittens do all day and
night is merely cry “meow, meow”. But baby monkeys have to
hold onto their mothers themselves; otherwise they will be finished.
When the mother is ready to cross from one roof or tree to
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another, at once the baby monkey runs over and holds on around
her stomach or on her back and is carried across. She never grabs
the babies herself, and if they don’t grab onto her, she goes
without them, thinking, “What good are such useless offspring
anyway?”
So which is the primary consideration here concerning sådhana
or k®på, mercy? Mahåprabhu said that both are essential. No one
can actually bind Bhagavån by the strength of their sådhana, but
by endeavouring more and more until such great determination
comes that all of one’s bodily needs and worldly attachments are
forgotten, then Bhagavån’s heart will melt and He will bestow
special mercy. Bhagavån’s k®på is upon all living entities at all
times, but not that special mercy by which He can actually be
bound. He only gives that upon seeing the intense endeavour of
His devotees, like the renunciation of Raghunåtha dåsa Gosvåmî.
How did he perform bhajana, day and night? The Six Gosvåmîs
would live outdoors in the jungle, such as at Nandagråma, or near
Påvana-sarovara, where a cool breeze is always blowing. They
would reside beneath trees, and nearby were snakes, scorpions
and many different kinds of jungle animals. They ate very little
and performed extremely strict bhajana.
By that kind of bhajana one can meet Bhagavån, but where is
such strictness and intensity in our bhajana? With great comfort
we are eating and drinking, and we possess quilts, pillows and
shawls. On cold days we have plenty of hot food to eat, and there
is never any deficiency in our sleeping. Therefore Bhagavån’s
mercy is upon us, the mercy of the Vaiß√avas is upon us, but it is
our misfortune that we don’t have the same intensity as the Six
Gosvåmîs.
Wonderstruck and experiencing ecstatic symptoms in his
description of the glories of Yaçodå, next Çukadeva Gosvåmî
experienced these feelings arising in his heart:
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nemaμ viriñco na bhavo
na çrîr apy a∫ga-saμçrayå
prasådaμ lebhire gopî
yat tat pråpa vimuktidåt
Çrîmad-Bhågavatam (10.9.20); B®had-bhågavatåm®ta (2.7.130)
Neither Brahmå, Çiva or even Lakßmî-devî – who eternally resides
at K®ß√a’s chest in the form of a golden line – have ever received
as much mercy as Yaçodå did from He who is the bestower of
liberation.
Although being Bhagavån’s own son, still, even Brahmå didn’t
attain as much mercy as Yaçodå did. Brahmå was born from the
lotus of Bhagavån’s navel. Generally a father is most munificent
to his son regardless of the son’s nature – whether he is a criminal
or whatever. And usually the son is made the father’s heir in all
respects, but even such a highly qualified son as Brahmå did not
receive the mercy which Yaçodå did. Coming to Vraja, Brahmå
saw, “First this offender Aghåsura tried to swallow K®ß√a, and then
I saw K®ß√a give liberation to him! I saw a light leave Aghåsura’s
body, fly up into the sky, and then merge into K®ß√a’s feet! That
was no ordinary light; it was certainly Aghåsura’s soul!”
Many were not able to recognise the divine symptoms of K®ß√a
and only saw Him as an ordinary human being. As K®ß√a prepared
to leave this world and return to Goloka in His form as
Dvårakådhîça, what did the ordinary people see? That K®ß√a was
shot by a hunter’s arrow, He began to bleed and He died right
there. Others saw a light come out of K®ß√a’s body and go into
the sky. Brahmå, Ça∫kara and others saw K®ß√a return to Goloka
in His selfsame form as His eternal associates offered Him prayers.
And what did the higher devotees of Dvårakå see? That K®ß√a
didn’t go anywhere; He always remains in Dvårakå. So according
to their different levels of inner development, people saw Him in
different ways.
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When Brahmå saw K®ß√a’s pastime of giving liberation to
Aghåsura, he became very astonished and thought, “How can
I see more pastimes like this?” Meanwhile, K®ß√a remembered
that He wanted to Himself become all of those cowherd boys and
calves, so here was the opportunity to accomplish all of His
objectives in one pastime. In this pastime He could marry all of
the gopîs, because if He had kept relationships with them otherwise,
the people of mundane consciousness would have criticised
Him. Next Yogamåyå sent inspiration into the heart of Brahmå
and he thought, “Let me see what will happen next if I steal the
cowherd boys and calves.”
In the end, seeing how K®ß√a Himself expanded into all of the
cowherd boys and calves, how all of their sticks and blankets and
everything appeared as four-armed Nåråya√as, and how so many
demigods were offering them prayers, he became wonderstruck
and immediately fell down like a stick at K®ß√a’s feet. Then he
looked again, and everything had disappeared, and only the original
form of K®ß√a remained, standing in His threefold-bending
posture and smiling.
Na-bhava˙ – Ça∫kara also did not receive as much mercy as
Yaçodå did. And who is Ça∫kara? He and Hari are one and the
same soul. For the purpose of showing the ideal standard of
worshipping Ça∫kara to the residents of this world, K®ß√a once
worshipped Ça∫kara. Brahmå may become offended, but Ça∫kara
never accepts any offence. And K®ß√a assigns Ça∫kara very difficult
tasks, even up to bewildering the jîvas in his incarnation as
Ça∫karåcårya and Ça∫kara always fulfils those tasks. Therefore he
is certainly the recipient of K®ß√a’s mercy, but not the prasåda,
the special mercy that is spoken of in this verse.
Na çrî˙ – and not even Lakßmî, who always resides at the
Lord’s chest and who performed austerities and püjå at Baelvana,
received such mercy as Yaçodå did. Vimuktidåt – K®ß√a is the
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giver of liberation. He bestows upon some the destination of
Vaikuàha, and upon others even the destination of Goloka
V®ndåvana, but to Yaçodå He gave that special mercy which was
not given to anyone else and by which He Himself becomes
bound.
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Chapter Fourteen
Pürva-råga, or Preliminary Attraction
gopînåμ paramånanda
åsîd govinda-darçane
kßa√aμ yuga-çatam iva
yåsåμ yena vinåbhavat
Çrîmad-Bhågavatam (10.19.16); B®had-bhågavatåm®ta (2.7.133)
The vraja-gopîs would enjoy supreme pleasure from receiving the
darçana of Çrî Govinda, but they would consider even one
moment of His absence to be like one hundred yugas.
K®ß√a and the sakhås had taken the cows out to graze in the
Muñjåra√ya forest when a fire started, and like a chariot driver
the wind carried that fire until it surrounded the boys and cows
on all sides. Then the sakhås called out, “K®ß√a! Baladeva! Save
us!” Seeing that they were threatened, K®ß√a said, “Just close your
eyes!” and He opened His mouth and consumed the fierce fire.
Then He told them that they could open their eyes; if they had
witnessed His swallowing that great fire they would have been
terrified. But the sakhås saw that everything was just as it was
before and that the cows were calmly resting under the Bhå√∂îra
tree. They thought, “How is it that we are here? Everything was
just burning! Was that just a dream, or was it real?” And then
they all began blissfully taking their lunch together.
In the same way, when by the cultivation of bhagavad-bhajana
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and the mercy of the spiritual master and Bhagavån we become
free from the burning suffering of the material energy, we will
think, “Was it just a dream, or was it real?” Upon the eradication
of that pain which had been tormenting us since time immemorial,
we will think, “Where has it gone, as if in the snap of
a finger? Was it real?” We really won’t be able to remember.
After this K®ß√a led the cows back to Vraja, and the gopîs were
thirsty for His darçana, and that is the time being described in
this verse spoken by Çukadeva Gosvåmî. When He came before
them, their ånanda increased. Although they had not yet established
a relationship with Him through either seeing Him or
hearing about Him, they were very attracted to Him, and this
is called pürva-råga. It can exist in both the vißaya, the supreme
object of love, K®ß√a, and in the åçraya, the supreme receptacle of
love, the gopîs.
To feel this pürva-råga in the stage of sådhana is not easy; the
pürva-råga that has been described in the writings of Vidyåpati,
Ca√∂îdåsa and in the Gopî-gîta and other places in the Çrîmad-
Bhågavatam cannot be attained by an ordinary sådhaka. Only
when one has attained svarüpa-siddhi – meaning when in the
stage of bhåva one attains perception of his eternal identity – will
such restlessness for the sight of K®ß√a be felt. Only a very few
devotees, like Bilvama∫gala, have felt these kind of sentiments
in the selfsame lifetime. But kßa√aμ yuga-çatam iva – feeling
a moment of K®ß√a’s absence to be like millenniums – what is the
nature of this sentiment? Although here it is pürva-råga, it can
also be mahåbhåva, as in this verse:
yugåyitaμ nimeße√a
cakßußå pråv®ßåyitam
çünyåyitaμ jagat sarvaμ
govinda-virahe√a me
Çrî Çikßå߆aka (7)
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O sakhî, in separation from Govinda, even one second seems like
millenniums. Tears are flowing from My eyes like clouds showering
torrents of rain, and the entire world appears empty.
This is also mahåbhåva; it is not an ordinary sentiment. The
poet Ca√∂îdåsa has written:
sai! kevå sunåile çyåma nåma?
kånera bhitara diyå, marame pasila go,
åkula karila mora prå√a
Although outwardly it is on the order of Nanda and Yaçodå that
K®ß√a joins the other boys to take the cows out to graze for the
day – He knows this is the dharma for those of His class – it is
actually with immense bhåva that He joins His friends. He has
just passed His pauga√∂a age and is entering His kaiçora age.
K®ß√a is speaking with Subala or some other cowherd boy, and
the sakhîs are conversing amongst themselves. Sai is a very simple
and sweet word for sakhî. They say, “Sai, why have we been made
to hear the name of Çyåma? Entering through our ears, it has
touched the core of our hearts and confounded our very lives.”
At once the gopîs became perplexed in the eagerness to attain
K®ß√a, and this is the very purpose of hearing the scriptures. By
hearing the glories of our worshipful deity through the medium
of our ears, our heart should become so attached to Him that day
and night we will do nothing besides meditate on His sweetness.
The gopîs have not just come to the end of sådhana by attaining
svarüpa-siddhi, but they are actually manifestations of the hlådinîçakti.
This meditation is not possible for ordinary people. But as
men who work in an oil factory will certainly develop a coating
of oil on their hands, similarly when a sådhaka hears and speaks
about these topics, “his hands will become coated”, meaning that
a little bhåva will arise in him by which his life will become
successful.
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Our spiritual sentiments should be so deep that we won’t be
able to forget them even for a moment, but regrettably, we have
become accustomed to generally doing exactly the opposite. We
hear these topics, but it seems as if immediately afterwards,
remembrance of material enjoyment consumes us. We are chanting
the holy name, studying çlokas and giving scriptural readings,
but where are our minds? Just as when we place an empty pot in
a river it immediately fills up with water, immediately after hearing
some of this bhagavat-kathå our minds will again become
filled with thoughts of the sense enjoyment that we have been
experiencing since time immemorial. We must try to keep the
mind free from these thoughts, even though it may not always
remain steady. We should go to wherever hari-kathå is being
spoken and completely fill our minds with it, leaving no room for
thoughts of sense enjoyment.
Indeed, there is nothing more favourable for us than hearing
hari-kathå, and it should be as our food. We should have love for
hari-kathå, and if not, then we should at least consider it our duty
to hear it, understanding that it will bestow upon us our ultimate
good fortune. Those whose hearts have been thoroughly purified,
who never think of sense enjoyment – when they hear such kathå,
deep sentiments that touch the very core of their hearts arise, and
they remain absorbed in those sentiments day and night.
In another place Ca√∂îdåsa writes that the young kiçorî daughter
of Mahåråja V®ßabhånu sits alone, completely perplexed, not
speaking to anyone, and one of Her elders says to Her, “My
child, what are You doing? Why are You sitting there like that?
Come over here and do this task.” But She doesn’t listen; She is
unable to comprehend what has happened inside Her. Her eyes
are open, which is a symptom of consciousness, but She isn’t
looking at anything. She saw Çyåma one time, but He left, and
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now She just remains silent and motionless. She has no desire to
eat, and She is wearing red cloth – why? To help Her forget His
bodily complexion so that She won’t become more dazed and
Her condition won’t then be detected by Her elders. With a hairband
She has tied white flowers onto Her hair so that its dark
shade will not remind Her of Çyåma, but since He has already
captured the core of Her heart, how can She possibly prevent
remembrance of Him from coming?
Then She began gazing at a cloud that possessed the same complexion
as Çyåma. Sometimes She enters the house and sometimes
She comes back out; She takes long breaths and Her mind is not
steady on anything. Then an elder says to Her, “Why did You go
there? What was the necessity? Beware! Don’t ever look in the
direction of that boy again! Don’t focus Your mind on Him for
even one moment, or You won’t be able to perform Your household
duties! You are not listening to me, so have You now lost the
fear of Your elders as well? Has some ghost or demigod possessed
You?” Not aware of anything, She falls down, and when they
lift Her up and place Her somewhere else, She falls down again.
Because She has lost Her fear of Her elders, they even abandon
the idea of finding a husband for Her. But Ca√∂îdåsa says, “Yes,
I understand: She is not mad, not possessed, nothing of the sort,
but She has simply fallen into the trap of that black snake Çyåma.”
This is pürva-råga.
But how can a sådhaka experience this? Generally our minds
are full of unlimited varieties of material desires, but when none
of these desires remain, meaning when one obtains the company
of an exalted guru and receives the unconditional mercy of
Bhagavån, then some shadow of bhåva will come. By chanting
the extraordinarily beautiful çyåma-nåma and the Hare K®ß√a
mantra, Rüpa Gosvåmî, Raghunåtha dåsa Gosvåmî and Nårada
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all went mad in ecstasy, so tell me then – how much bhåva must
be contained within it? And Bhaktivinoda ˇhåkura also has written
so many lines that are saturated with bhåva, like:
vibhåvarî-çeßa, åloka-praveça,
nidrå chå∂i’ u†ha jîva
Kalyå√a-kalpataru (Nåma-kîrtana 2)
This refers to meditating on the pastimes that K®ß√a performs at
the end of the night while ordinary jîvas remain sleeping. And in
the same song, phula-çara-jojaka kåma: “Çrî K®ß√a utilises flowered
arrows to increase the gopîs’ desire.” Until one has understood
well the conception delineated in Ujjvala-nîlama√i, he
won’t understand this line. Or if the kåma-gåyatrî reveals itself to
someone, then that person will understand something of its
meaning, but without the mercy of the kåma-gåyatrî it cannot
be understood. The bhåva of a mahå-bhågavata Vaiß√ava comes
within this line, but even though we sing this line every morning,
what do we accrue from it? Therefore the difference between a
sådhaka’s chanting of the holy name and a perfected soul’s chanting
of the holy name is like the difference between the land and
the sky. When one has fully realised the sweetness of harinåma,
then his tongue will not be able to stop chanting it. For example,
when Caitanya Mahåprabhu would go to pass water, He would
firmly grasp His tongue with one hand. Seeing this, His young
servant Gopåla asked, “O Lord, why are You doing this?”
Mahåprabhu replied, “My tongue doesn’t obey Me. One
shouldn’t take the name of Govinda in a contaminated place, but
it won’t obey Me.”
Gopåla replied, “But my Lord, at the time of dying one may
pass stool and urine, and if we don’t chant the holy name at that
time, our lives will be spoiled!”
Being pleased, Mahåprabhu said, “As of today you have
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become guru. Yes, the holy name should be taken at that time
also.” So He released His tongue and chanted at all times, even
when going to the bathroom. During the night, Mahåprabhu’s
servant Govinda dåsa thought that He was merely sleeping, but
He would remain awake chanting k®ß√a-nåma, crying and sometimes
rubbing His face on the wall. And when Råya Råmånanda
and Svarüpa Dåmodara would come, Govinda dåsa would
become very unhappy and think, “Why have they come? They
will make Him cry and He will not be able to sleep tonight.”
When this high type of intense bhåva comes while chanting
the holy name, then one’s composure will be destroyed and he
will think, “Without seeing K®ß√a I cannot live any longer! How
can I meet Him? What will I do?” Then one’s fear of elders, fear
of being disgraced in society, and self-restraint are all lost. There
are certain inhibitions that restrain love, but when they are all
broken down, one’s self-restraint is lost. Even Rukmi√î and
Satyabhåmå are not capable of this, so what to speak of others?
The night before her proposed marriage, through a bråhma√a
Rukmi√î sent a message to K®ß√a saying, “Tomorrow I will be
married. If You don’t come and save me from this, I will give up
my life. Shamefully I am writing this to You; a cultured girl
should not write like this, but shamefully I am writing to You
because otherwise a jackal will snatch away the lion’s share.” So
even though RukmiÔ is expressing these deep sentiments, she
feels some shame; but the gopîs feel no such shame, and therefore
their bhåva is so much deeper. When the gopîs would see K®ß√a
returning from taking the cows out to graze, they would gaze
upon Him with greedy eyes and their ånanda would increase. But
when they couldn’t see Him, even a moment seemed like millions
of yugas that would never pass. This is pürva-råga, and countless
beautiful sentiments are included within it.
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The gopîs felt that the time which elapsed during the blinking of
their eyes was like an infinity, and they have themselves described
this in Çrîmad-Bhågavatam (10.31.15):
a†ati yad bhavån ahni kånanaμ
tru†i yugåyate tvåm apaçyatåm
ku†ila-kuntalaμ çrî-mukhaμ ca te
ja∂a udîkßatåμ pakßma-k®d d®çåm
When K®ß√a would spend the day wandering in the forest with
the sakhås, the gopîs, unable to see His beautiful face adorned with
lovely locks of hair, would be anguished in separation from Him.
And what to speak of that, even when K®ß√a was before them,
they considered the tiny fraction of time that elapsed in the blinking
of their eyes to be like millenniums, and they cursed the creator
Brahmå as being foolish for having created eyes that must
blink. Our time is mostly spent joking around, but in comparison
what kind of bhajana was performed by these great personalities?
We have read that only once in his entire life did Raghunåtha
dåsa Gosvåmî laugh. While he was reading Rüpa Gosvåmî’s
Vidagdha-mådhava-nå†aka, his tears were falling on the handwritten
pages and smearing the ink. Seeing this, Rüpa Gosvåmî
asked for it back, but Raghunåtha dåsa clutched it to his heart
and refused to return it. Therefore Rüpa Gosvåmî composed the
Dåna-keli-kaumudî very quickly, and after reading only a few
verses of it, Raghunåtha dåsa began laughing. Otherwise he
remained crying for K®ß√a throughout his entire life. If there is
such crying for K®ß√a, then that is real sådhana and one will certainly
receive His darçana, just as in the case of Bilvama∫gala.
Presently we may be engaged in only the semblance (åbhåsa) of
real sådhana, but if even in this stage of sådhana-åbhåsa we feel so
much joy by hearing and speaking this kathå, then just imagine
how blissful we will feel when we enter into real sådhana!










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